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Gordon Lightfoot's "If you could read my mind," and cancer scan results

11/2/2017

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After five infusions of chemotherapy, my MRI results are back, but the implications are not yet clear.   The scan showed that the pelvic mass has reduced in volume by 80%; however, the right ureter is still entangled in it.  So although I have responded well to the chemo protocol, it is not enough.  I anticipate they will order more chemo cycles.  I will know more after consulting with the oncologist and the surgeon next week.

The side effects of chemo continue to daunt me.  It seems that as soon as one improves, another takes its place.  You know when you have a bad flu, and it hurts to touch your skin?  It is like that.  I cannot get warm.  The mouth sores and my broken foot just add another level of misery, effort, and frustration to each day.

Despite everything, we pulled off Halloween!  In view of my peg-leg, we adopted a pirate theme.   We scared the teenagers with our scabbards.  When a little kid came to the door dressed as a sweet princess, we would shout, “We pirates be afraid of princesses!” and then scream in terror, which often made the princess dissolve in helpless giggles.  We entertained at least 100 kids with our antics.

Next week, I will be in Halifax at a Canadian Cancer Action Network event aimed at addressing barriers to cancer screening in the Maritime provinces.  So even while desperately sick, I am still slogging away at improving healthcare.

My horrible diagnostic story is profiled in the October 2017 issue of Reader’s Digest!  It is in a piece on speaking up to doctors: the link is here.

Each post, I share the lyrics of a famous popular song, to illustrate the emotions of this journey.  Gordon Lightfoot’s haunting song "If You Could Read My Mind" is from his 1971 Album with the same title. It reached Number One on Billboard’s Easy Listening chart. His voice, so beautifully mellifluous, captures the anguish of his divorce that inspired these lyrics.  To me, this song is about estrangement and loss, and incomprehension of another’s indifference.  Today, I send this song out to Doctor Number Two in my Cancer Olympics story.  She had been my family doctor for 14 years at the time of her negligence in my diagnostic horror-show pathway.  I think of her with great sadness.  I knew her: I thought she knew me.  Does she ever reflect on those events?  On what they did to my life?  Sadly, I will never know.
 
If you could read my mind love, 
what a tale my thoughts could tell 
Just like an old time movie 

'Bout a ghost from a wishing well 
 In a castle dark or a fortress strong 
With chains upon my feet

you know that ghost is me 
And I will never be set free 
As long as I'm a ghost that you can't see

If I could read your mind love,
what a tale your thoughts could tell 
Just like a paperback novel,

the kind the drugstores sell 
When you reach the part where the heartaches come 
The hero would be me

But heroes often fail 
And you won't read that book again because the ending's just too hard to take

 
I'd walk away like a movie star 
Who gets burned in a three way script,

enter Number Two 
A movie queen to play the scene 
Of bringing all the good things out in me 
But for now love, let's be real 

 
I never thought I could feel this way 
and I've got to say that I just don't get it 
I don't know where we went wrong but the feeling's gone 
And I just can't get it back

If you could read my mind love, what a tale my thoughts could tell 
Just like an old time movie,

'bout a ghost from a wishing well 
In a castle dark or a fortress strong

with chains upon my feet 
But stories always end 

And if you read between the lines
you'll know that I'm just trying to understand 
The feelings that you lack 
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I never thought I could feel this way
and I've got to say that I just don't get it 
I don't know where we went wrong

but the feeling's gone and I just can't get it back.

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